Child Safety During This Shut Down Of Our Schools

Child Safety During This Shut Down Of Our Schools

As we are knee deep in the middle of this pandemic from the Coronavirus, and people are scurrying about trying to obtain cleaning supplies, groceries and paper products; we may be forgetting some very valuable thoughts!

All of the children and young adults will be home, and for many possibly unsupervised.    There can be many different scenarios because the reality is most parents and caregivers still have to go to work.

Where does this leave our children?

Vulnerable to prey!

As many communities agonized with the decision to keep schools open or shut them down, it was a hard one because, school is their safe haven!   School is where they get fed, nurtured and kept safe.  School is where they are learning in a structured environment.  There are far too many homes that are stricken by poverty, neglect and abuse.

Older sibling responsible for younger sibling.   Families and friends grouped together taking turns monitoring all of the children, as others go off to work.

Some of the caregivers may not be equipped to care for them properly or safely for a variety of reasons.     Other parents and guardian’s may have to make tough choices as to who will watch their children, and they may do something they would not normally do, allow a neighbor/friend to take the lead while they are away from home.

I am not saying that there are not good, strong people out there that are willing to help, but there are also predators waiting in the wings for this type of opportunity.   This is where the abuser will shine the most, as an “upstanding citizen” or “overly helpful family member” jumping eagerly at an opportunity to get close and personal.

We need to be more aware than ever as we move forward over the next few week to our surroundings and the children that are running about.    Please take notice to things that may not seem right and do not be afraid to ask the important questions.  It may feel like an intrusion, but what can it really hurt?     It may hurt a child if you do NOT ask the questions.

Also, for parents, guardian’s and caregivers I know this is a big struggle having the children home because of work and money issues, but PLEASE really make good choices when it comes to safety and childcare.     Do not be bullied by the system!   

Children First!

Again, moving forward, if you see someone in need, reach out with kindness because it is definitely a struggle.  

This juggling act of work, family, safety and health!

We will get through this difficult time together and before we know it, the Coronavirus will be an after-thought!       Until then, lets offer support, kindness and respect for one another, and help whenever it is necessary.

Be the eyes and ears of those parents who have to continue to work through this madness, and be a safety support for the children. 

They need us!

Food for thought!

Embrace the Journey,

God Bless

Lisa Zarcone

Author/Child & Mental Health Advocate/Public Speaker/Blogger/Inspirationalist

The Unspoken Truth A Memoir - A child’s story – An adult’s journey towards healing